Dear mhdhamood,
Yes I am saying this to check the shear for gravity. Actually, what you are saying is 100% correct but this design should be inplane. I ll explain again.
When earthquake comes and there will be rotations then these rotations will not be out of plane. These will b e inplane. So thats why you need to design the slab for inplane forces for lateral loading and thickness of slab for out of plane forces. Thats the concept of code. This is the reason the ACI chapter 21 allows us to design the slab member on gravity for out of plane forces and then design the slab for lateral forces for inplane forces.
So there are two types of design for Slab in case of earthquake if building is in high seismic zone
1- Out of plane design which is based on gravity analysis which includes the ordinary flexural reinforcement and shear reinforcement if required
2- Inplane design which includes the Tension reinforcement, shear reinforcement and shear fricktion reinforcement.
Seconldy if your building is in high seismic areas you can not use these same load combinations which you wrote above. If as per ASCE if your building is in seismic deisign category D, E and F then you need to modify these load combinations.