1. Consider the post below.
2. Yes, ETABS itself accounts for a column's slenderness.
3. See same post as above.
4. When selecting combos, it is better to select all combos so that you may check SAFE results for any load combo if you want. However, for design purpose you have to consider the WORKING COMBO only i.e. the one with gravity loads. If you consider the results of combos that include earthquake, make sure to increase your bearing capacity by 33%.